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I Ain’t Saying I’m A Gold-Digger, But I Won’t Mess With No Broke Bro…

In Rants on 08/04/2013 at 6:02 AM

Hey it’s me again.

So, a loooonnggggg while back me and my friends were in art (where we basically chilled for 2 hours straight until how many months past the deadline for the complete art folder) & we were talking about guys & our requirements, me being me comes out with something to the effect of “he needs to have money”. They gave me the “gold-digger alert look”,

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I don’t blame them but it’s their fault for jumping into conclusions & I explained to them in short…. “I won’t marry for money, I’ll marry where there is money”.

When I say money, I don’t mean big bucks, 15 bedroom mansion, 2o cars, rubies and diamonds and all that. When I say money, I mean enough to live a comfortable life, I don’t want hardship, I don’ want struggle, I want to give my kids the best, I want to look after my parents the way they’ve looked after me through my life, I want security…  that’s not too much too much ask for is it?

The way I see it, a man’s job is to provide and to protect for me (and our four kids). Simple. Yeah, I want there to be love  & all those fireworks but love alone doesn’t put food on the table, love ain’t no currency. Every woman needs a man who will provide for his family, especially in our days, times are hard my friend, no one needs a waste man to add dead weight to their lives. And, it applies to both men and women. I hate leech bitches “Buy me this, buy me that, buy, buy, buy” Like – can’t you get a job? What I’m trying to say here is that I’m also gonna work to build my family.

Which builds up to my other point. I had the whole “he has to have money” attitude back in school & obviously many people drew up their own conclusions, I didn’t tell them what I’m telling you now, so I don’t blame them. I remember one of my friends, she has you-tube channel as well (Hazel Dhami), she must have told me something about how she thought I was one of those leech bitches, she didn’t say it in a bitchy way or anything, it must have been banter & in a rare moment of me being all sincere & shit I told her something like… I plan to be successful, I plan to build a life for myself, so I’d want somebody on the same wavelength as me, because I don’t want to live off someone & I also don’t want someone to live off me. Hazel was like “that is one of the most meaningful thing I’ve heard you say” (or something to that effect) & it’s true I talk crap 80% of the time, that’s just the dominant side of me. Stay beautiful. Love, Miss More.

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5 Reasons Why Twilight Sucks

In Books on 18/12/2012 at 9:48 AM

The Twilight Saga is nearly dead, so I thought that I should get this out there now as a good-bye & good riddance ritual. I’ve read Twilight probably twice, New Moon twice (didn’t want to because that shit depressed me but had to because I felt that I was too busy being depressed to take in the story), Eclipse a minimum of four times (I actually cried the last time, when Bella came back from the Black house after the big battle) and Breaking Dawn a shocking NINE times!! I’m actually kinda embarrassed for myself  now. I loved those books probably because of the hype but now I wouldn’t recommend them. I have also watched all the movies at least twice each. So now I have compiled a list of reasons outlining why the Twilight Saga is utter elephant & donkey shit. In no particular order…. Imma keep it short and sweet.

1. Weak female characters

I hate Isabella Marie Cullen née Swan. Bella is a vagina. She is what every woman in the world should strive not be. She is weak, a push-over, she is clingy, she goes 3/4 of mad over some boy. I hate bitches that love so much that it consumes them. They are no strong female characters in Twilight maybe Jane is a bit of a bad ass but she is owned by a man, a real woman is her own boss, it get’s worse from here, Victoria is driven by revenge for her love, worse still James didn’t even love her really & the bitch couldn’t see that. Leah is bitter over lost love, like Bella she lets a man effect everything about her. Alice is cool but she ain’t shit without her vision. Renee is an air head who needs to get slapped. Esme is just the traditional woman. Jessica is a typical hating female & my favorite Rosalie is not happy with her life, why? Because she wants to fulfill the traditional role of a woman, pop out babies and look after a house.

2. Edward does not want to die.

Why does everybody not see that Edward Cullen is a scheming, controlling, conniving, manipulative, possessive mother fucker?

3. The vampires are a joke.

I’d really like to know what possessed Meyer to create glow in the light vampires. Enough said. Twilight missed the blood and gore that make a vampire tale…. a vampire tale.

4. It includes the worst love triangle in the history of time

Everyone and their grandmother knew that Jacob didn’t have a chance in the seven heavens.

5. It just does.

The Objectification of Women In Society – My Take

In Views On Life on 26/10/2012 at 2:29 AM

Am I the only one who wonders why, when girls are approached by guys and they claim to be lesbians the guy’s eyes almost instantly light up like an over decorated Christmas tree and it’s these same guys that don’t like homosexuals? I was watching clips of “Game of Thrones” just the other day & everybody was projecting their disgust at two particular gay love scenes. You have to understand “Game of Thrones” is not for the faint-hearted, it’s full of horror, gore, prostitution, rape…. all sorts, but people don’t say shit about them but they chose to protest about a little gay action. However, if a something was to include some lesbian action… e.g. “Jennifer’s Body” it would be no problem.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have reasons to believe that this whole thing that means lesbians are more tolerated in society than gays is a sign of the severe objectification of women. Think about it. Gays are disgusting and lesbians are fire because until tomorrow, society will collectively see women as sexual objects, just another hole to sink in. When a man looks at two women making out, he can think of a nice threesome, where he gets to be king for the night. But when a man looks at two men making out, he see no way that he can get something out it so he immediately reflexes from it. Simple mathematics.

What is a woman these days anyways? Please tell me? We are used to sell all sorts from cigarettes to cars to tell me what not, wait let me rephrase that our bodies are used to sell cigarettes…… no one even needs to see our face anymore, it’s all about them titties and that ass and thighs and shit. Most of the “successful”  women, the ones that the next generation admire aren’t exactly role models. What can Rihanna teach your daughter other that “rude boys have to be big enough”? Lady Gaga can teach your daughter that disco sticks are to be ridden on and Megan Fox can teach your daughter that an effective way to make money is to spend two movies practically bent over and pressing your boobs together. I think it’s fair to say that the next generation of independent women are screwed. Side note – how the hell did Beyoncé sing “nasty put your clothes on” and then have the audacity to go on stage booty out, half-naked & showing her knickers (if your American panties) and shit?

Women have fought for centuries to see eye to eye with men but we still live in a very collectively sexist society today, we shouldn’t be putting all our efforts in getting rights in the boardroom, we should also work to take an active role as the pillars of societies, by reclaiming our power. And it starts with every parent in the world telling and showing their daughter from the crib that she is not an object, but a breathing, feeling human being who has as much potential as someone’s son. If a woman knows her worth, if she knows that she is sacred and that she holds full power over herself, she will not sell herself cheaply and become an object. And if boys are also taught from the crib about the value of a woman it would be of the greatest help. That’s my take anyways. I know that not many people are gonna read this but oh well, I have left my mark forever on the internet. Thanks for reading, more to come.

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